Well, Health has been ok for the most part. We’ve been dealing with Bronchitis and fevers the last few weeks, and just extreme fatique. However we’ve been given a financial blow.
Merry Christmas and Happy Thanksgiving come to mind this time of the year. Enjoying a big turkey dinner and stuffing your face with different pies. Looking at the kids faces when they wake up in the morning Christmas day to see all those presents under the tree, or at least one that they really wanted. This year the shipmans will be receiving the gift of unemployment. Effective Nov 21st, Morgan no longer has a job. (Reasoning) He took too much sick time off (to take care of his family) even with doctor notes, showed up a day or two 15 mins late, cause his alarm didn’t go off, and they feel if he’s looking for a new job that he’s not happy with his current one, so they wont hire him when he transfers to a different department. The bonus of this Holiday gift we get, no insurance, no paychecks and no more therapy for my kids. Unfortunately assisted medical care doesn’t support occupational/speech therapy (most insurance doesn’t) and if I haven’t mentioned before medically in our family, I’m not the only one. Nick has Asthma and was diagnosed in 2005 with Aspergers, Adhd and Sensory integretion. He’s been in therpay the last 3 yrs to help with the autistic issues. However will be unable to due to being layed off and no insurance.
Did we expect this to happen? Not before the holidays, and not for the reasons they say. This happened the day after he came back to work after a week off, and a call from a potential new employment opportunity calling for references on Morgan.
For this Christmas we need blessings and prayers. Morgan is a hard working, damn good father, husband, and employee. Why they can’t see that and recognize that is beyond me. He’s been unlike any other man I know taking on so much and sacrificing himself for his family. He’s there for me every step I need him. He’s my rock. I’m sad when I don’t hear his voice every so many hours of every day. I love him so much. The kids miss him every morning he’s not home. “Where’s daddy?” they ask every morning. “At work” I’ll say and they get angry saying, “he belongs here wit’ us. ” At work, he’s been there 6+yrs. He’s there when then need someone when someone calls in sick. He’s there to work overtime whenever they need it filled. When they have a computer issue (Which he’s not payed for) he’s just smart, they call him to come fix it or unjam stuff. Yet this year unlike other years I’ve been sick in a different way. Healthier than usually I am, but constantly under a chronic infection, which we’ve now found out is granuloma scaring in my lungs and airway, and hearing ear problems and constant inflammation. Only one bout of Chemo this 2008, 3 surgeries on my airway and a whopper of a injection of streroids. Yet I’m at the doctors weekly for breathing or coughing issues, and contant sinus infections. Also his job was switch the last year from a department he loved, and that worked. He never had to take time off cause he had mon- wed off. He says his family comes first. However we all know you cant pay the bills with love. Our family has said it’s ok, that things will work out, but it doesn’t help ease the anger and pain.
Morgan deserves better than the way they’ve treated him this last year. Morgan deserves better than what they offer him. He’s worked so hard. From graduated from College on his while I was at my sickest, and taking care of a austistic son, and newborn twins. to now. He’s worked so hard the last 5 yrs and deserves something great! Right now, he says that prayers and positive thinking is what will do that.
This doesn’t mean I’m not working, this just means I’m a bit emotional right now, so If I seem overly affectionate or distant in my emails. I apologize in advance. I’m taking it the hardest right now, when I know he’ is so much better than what people think. He deserves happiness! Honey if you are reading this. I love you and you are an amazing everything. I take the stress and amplify it cause I know you wont you bottle it up, so at least one of us has to blow off the steam, and I’m good at it!
I LOVE YOU!
Thanks everyone for reading!
Back to work for me!!!!
PS, this is what comes to mind with this type of issue. It will take me a week to get past this and accept it.